FLIRTING

Everyone has the ability to flirt.

As little children, we do it naturally. Unfortunately, all that charm and grace usually gets lost somehwere along the path to adulthood.

What is flirting?

Many people don't have a clear idea of what exactly flirting is or how flirting differs from any other type of social interaction. Even people who engage in flirting tend to differ with each other as to its exact definition.

Webster defines flirting as behaving "amorously without serious intent." Sometimes, however, the intent can be very serious.

Flirting can perhaps better be defined as "relaxed, light-hearted communication between a male and a female with the intent of getting to know each other better."

Flirting is as simple as getting along with others, enthralling them with our sensuality and attractiveness, our humor and common sense. Unearth the treasures in your own personality, by rediscovering all those alluring traits you have been supressing.

Learn the social principles to fascinate, titillate, captivate and be great at love's most amusing sport.

Golden Rule Of Flirting

Flirting is a game. It is a mental game. And how you feel about flirting is the key to your flirting success.

Flirting doesn't require great logic, only diligence.

You need to overcome one basic human emotion to be successful in flirting.

Hurt.

Hurt from the past. Imagined hurts in the future. Even hearing, reading, reading about, seeing, and making assumptions about hurt that others have sustained. All these things keep us from moving ahead with our own flirting excursions.

Negative memories inhibit future relationships. Do yourself a favour by balancing these out of your mind.


The golden rule of flirting:

Do unto potential flirting partners as you would have them do unto you --- no matter what you think they've already done unto you.

Leave past romantic partners and current hurts out of your flirting plan. Stop trying to get back at them, By basing your flirting attitude soley on how successfully you are in treating others, your aura of attractiveness and invisible magnetism will expand.

Three Flirting Basics

No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it's not necessary to be devastaatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes. These assests are just window dressing for the sucessful flirt and pale in comparison to the three flirting basics.

The Three Flirting Basics:

1. Be Smart
2. Be Patient
3. Be Prepared

No matter what you think, to be a great flirt it's not necessary to be devastaatingly attractive, rich, smooth, or good at batting your eyelashes. These assests are just window dressing for the sucessful flirt and pale in comparison to the three flirting basics.

1. Be Smart

Be smart enough to assess a situation, so you know when flirting is appropriate. Use your logical mind along with your sensual feelings. Being smart means knowing ahead of time what you want to accomplish. Know that one rejection or triumph isn't the end-all of your social life.

2. Be Patient

To the person you are flirting with there is nothing so applealing as some-one who thinks he or she is worth waiting for. If you appear unhurried and give the imression you are not going to be dissuaded from your objective of impressing your target, your target will likely give in to your initial invitations - because being with you seems inevitable.

Who can resist someone who says in so many ways that you are worth his patient efforts?

Patient flirting means maintaining a repeated presence in the life of your flirting partner. You can do this by phone, by sending a birthday card, or by just being around their favourite hangout.


3. Be Prepared

Be on red-alert for flirting. Flirting takes place most successfully when you least expect it. Make being prepared a daily habit. Always be ready to say, "hi", to accept a compliment, to speak to someone new. Be presentable. Forget your troubles and smile.

As Forrest Gump's wise mama said in the movie, "Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're going to get." There will be new surprises and dilemmas, but the more you do of it, the more confidence you will have.